Yeah, lots of people here have enjoyed Meetup.com as a way to find new friends and activities - it seems like it would be a great way to GAL.
As for the "going for hours" business - sometimes guys with erectile dysfunction who have difficulty achieving orgasm can TAKE what seems like hours - not necessarily an enjoyable thing for the woman lol!
Your ex has some serious issues and really, isn't a very nice person, at least not right now. Look for positive, competent, kind people to include in your life.
