West,

forget the dang 10$!! No way are you going to look better for caring about it unless you make it about how you were trying to clarify for HER sake, etc etc

Please take Val's advice about waiting periods. We all have benefitted from that including me.

As for meetup.com - my 22 y/o daughter uses that site to meet people who speak French, enjoy classical music, and now she's in a writer's group. It's not all about dating but it CAN lead to it...and sometimes does. So it's better that sites that are strictly about dating in a lot of ways.

and last but not least btw, if your ex w's new OM can literally "last for hours", literally....trust me on this-he's taking Viagra.

...I know too many men and women who've shared LOTS of info and I have 5 brothers with high sex drives. You can't go on "FOR HOURS" without some help...or a lot of breaks in between.

and at his young age, that's NOT so impressive.

But enough of HIM...how are YOU?

and Go to Meetup.com......it's LOW risk my friend. And high yield potential!


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change