Zoo, I know you have heard it before, but boy do I identify with your sitch. My thread is on Separated under Amazing Adventures of Stay at Home Dad. I am only 2 months in, so I am grasping for advice and for hope. If you could check it out and pass it on to others like you who have survived, I'd appreciate it. JJ, Please don't be angry that I posted this plea in the success thread.
jandock
"In the clearing stands a boxer
And a fighter by his trade
And he carries the reminder
Of every glove that laid him down
and cut him til he cried out
'I am leaving
I am leaving'
But the fighter still remains"
-Paul Simon