I wish I knew. Yesterday, I snooped thru my H text messages and found things I wish I never found. One of his co workers that he was involved with, well they sent dirty pics and dirty sayings back and forth. And his ex-girlfriend sent dirty pics of herself. And she is married. I would love to forward those to her husband. This happened a month after we separated. And I found a text from a few days ago that he sent her how he could not get her off his mind and he was horny for her. Think God she lives up north. Now I can't seem to get the pics out of my head. I don't know how to deal with this. If I told him that I knew about them, it would be the end of our relationship. I wish I knew how to handle this.