Trusting, Here's my take on the phone conversation. The ow knew that your child was near by and may have just said that they were getting married in 2013 so that your child would hear it and run back to you. You may to remember, the ops are manipulative and cunning....
It wasn't appropriate to say that in front of your child, but when it comes to being manipulative, they will use anything and anyone to stir the pot up. The year 2013 is far off and a lot can happen in 12 months...but I still think she pulled the year out of hat and used it to her advantage to make sure the message was carried home to you.
Sit quietly, information will definitely fall into your lap and very soon.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
