JUST a thought ITM- Had a friend get sober and tell me that few marriages survive once sobriety comes into the picture. This is good because you and H no longer have that old M. No matter what, you will be forced to form a new R....whatever that will be.
Not to get your hopes up...hope for the best and be prepared for the worse, but being separated like you have been almost gives you both an opportunity to approach anything with a new light on it. It's like that total break some couples need to reassess.
Just thinking out loud....which sometimes gets me into trouble!
M 55 H 58 M 24 T 29 S 22,21, 19 Bomb 4/10 It (A) really isn't about you 11/2013 We all have work to do
The truth will set you free, but it will almost kill you first.