Anyone out there have any words of encouragement, successes or ideas about what more I can do? The more I GAL and act detached, the more she seems to be detaching... and pursuing other men. It's like if she thinks I'm fine, she doesn't have to feel guilt and can continue to carry out her plan with a clear conscience.

She's changed the passwords on her job and home computer and phone, so I know she's out there communicating with new contacts (men).

Other than her asking for details of where I've been and what I did when I have been out without her, I'm seeing no signs at all of her wanting back in. Been in limbo for two months.

HELP!!