What I like is that my W is starting to take the lead in planning things for us to do. She's wants me to take her to an art museum tomorrow and then a castle in NY soon.
What's cool is that in the early bomb days she reacted to me as if I was Hitler/Satan/hannibal lecter all rolled into one, but we have at least gotten to this better place.
She's going through so much in her current life crisis but if I hadn't seen the light thru the DB program and asked for the 2" * 4" school of input I think we never would have gotten to this point.
I know where I'm going in terms of how I will conduct myself henceforth and I am seeing my W work through an enormous amount of issues. I feel I am strong enough to change my life for the better snd also be what she needs now and going forward.
Not that its easy though. I have to continually monitor my emotional state throughout this. I don't know where this will lead in terms of our M but really, I couldn't have imagined us at this point even a few months ago.
