Wife Left (Part 2)

[BklynMom]

I think this part next phase is critical and its so so hard. When she says we are getting a D you say "okay I understand". Thats it.

If she starts talking details about custody, finances etc - I suggest you say, "It really hard for me give a fair answer on that because I dont want this to happen. I will hire a lawyer and ask him what is fair and go along with that. I dont want this to be difficult I just want a neutral party to determine what is fair for both of us"

Dont engage her about the relationship!! Yes just put it off, say I need to get some advice from whoever. Each response needs to be planned and thought through.

Tell her you cant talk about it now, you need to think, tell her anything but dont answer any questions on the spot. You need to think about each and everything you say to her.

Dont give up! Your son does not want you to give up. Do what works, if that means being a sucker, be a sucker.

There is so much hope. You are on the right path!!