Controlling is just a small part of my situation.

The bigger issue is that my w thinks she things she can never be good enough to me. I kinda see it as a self esteem issue.

My wife is finding her identity and evaluating what is important to her and seems as though I just don't measure up lately.

I need to read up on your abstinence pledge. I can tell you that after 6 months of no sex I'm doing just fine.

M 42
W 41
S 10
D 7
M 15 Years
T 20 Years
Divorce busted