Looking over some previous posts in my thread and other threads I do understand that W hasn't had enoogh time to believe my changes are real. She did make some comments today that she sees them, but probably isn't quite sure they will last.

She said she is still needs to cintinue to get help for herself.

What I can't get over is her "feeling empty". She said she feels no emotion when she pets the dogs and cats. The only time she feels any emotion at all is for S.

And what hurts me even more is when she said she has no feelings for me and can forgive me, but never forget.

How can I help her with these empty feelings? Can I help her with this?

Sorry there is so much going through my head right now. Was so blindsided today with the bomb.

M 33
W 29
S 4
M 5
T 7
11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents
12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over"
1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped