Is There Hope?

[kolja]

I want so much to write him and say "WHY WON'T YOU TALK TO ME" I want so much to know if I'm right about my convo with the ex getting back with him.

Well, definitely don't write THAT email.

Yeah, you backslid a LITTLE, but pick yourself up, dust yourself off and press on.

Interesting about talking to his exwife. I think on the whole, that was probably a good thing even if she did write to him about it. After all, you got some important insight about him right?

My first wife, long after our divorce, told me (we were in casual contact) that she had since wondered how things would be different - I kind of wished she could tell that to my current wife, but I know that them getting in contact in my case would be an unmitigated disaster!