Thanks for the help. I went to see my counselor on Thursday and had some good feedback, she also wanted to develop some idea's about what i've doing, and what I'm looking for. My wife and I were able to sit down and talk Thursday afternoon for over a hour, I was able to explain that what I have been doing was wrong, and was not me, she listened patiently but didn't have any real response. She feels that we keep going thru the same issues every year and is tired of it. I realize what I want out of this marriage and I'm working hard to show that I can communicate. Just like everyone else I'm also impatient, but I know yesterday was a good start. I hope to be able to sit down with her and continue our talks. I appreciate any advice given, I just want her back!
