Some advice would be great on what to say to her tomorrow. Time doesn't seem to be on my side, she did say she didn't want me to be surprised when she files for D.

I know people threaten all the time and don't follow through, but I know her, she will.

We talked a little when W dropped S off.

She did admit this is just as much as her fault as it is mine. I told her time can heal this, but she said she can't be with me.

I told her I couldn't imagine anyone else raising S. She said it works both ways.

I asked what about when he starts school in September. She said we should hold him back until next year since he is on the borderline for age. Then she said she would move closer so she could live in school district.

More trying to reason with her came out, to no avail.

She again said we can talk in morning.


M 33
W 29
S 4
M 5
T 7
11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents
12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over"
1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped