My ex also felt pushed away for too long, and gave up. It's only been 4 weeks for me, and I'm finding myself feeling impatient. Patience is key here! Like Mach said, you acted your way into this, and talking won't get you out of it. I'm trying to accept that not enough time has gone by for me. It's so very hard going through this. I'm trying my best to get a life and emotionally detach. He still wanted to flirt with me and sleep with me, and I let it happen beCause I want him so much. I realized that that won't bring him back, so I'm trying to distance myself.
Give your W time to figure out her emotions. Be happy around her and don't do any begging or pleading. Be the best man that you can be. This is often a wake up call.
M & H 25 T 9 D 7 S 4 Bomb 11/11 Confused about feelings for me. Bomb 12/11 ILYBNILWY, moved out 2-1-12 We're exclusive & dating each other. 3-4-12 H moved back in. 3-31-12 I deserve better. I'm done