I felt a little uncomfortable being pointed out as a "success", but I've been thinking about that. I don't expect a perfect 10 to be happy in my R. There are still uncomfortable bumps in the road and healing to do, but all in all, I can say that I have been successful. A year ago, my H was having an A with a co-worker and was convinced that our R was over. Now he's committed to me and we have a much stronger, more loving R than we had before. If that isn't success, I guess I don't know what is!
