L2L: I have read your sitch from beginning till now. I too am dealing with a rupture that really began in August, perhaps Sept of this past year, with first bomb in Oct and second on Dec 27. My FI is however, currently away and will be returning to the country at the end of Feb. I'm terrified as I have no idea what will happen. But as it stands now, I am out of our house and we are done.
You sound very strong and like you're handling this really well. I admire that.
Please post the ways you manage to detach. I am trying to go dark and am a sponge for suggestions right now
Best of luck to you and I send good wishes your way
