have you read the books that form the basis of this site? They're crucial for you to read. Either read the first one "Div Busting" or read "The Divorce Remedy" (I prefer the latter).
If you do not read these books you won't get nearly as much from this site as you could.
So,
You left him. How old are you and how old is he?
And how long were you married?
What is your goal in coming here? Do you want to reconcile? Why?
Also since you left him some time ago, why do you care if other women are interested in him?
I mean, do you see how he could feel it's none of your business? Is it possible that you broke his heart?
We can better help you if we know what the real issues are in your relationship. A lot of what you say sounds vague to me.
Why'd you leave him? Did you want to punish him, get him to change or did you want to divorce him?
What has changed your mind, if anything?
How have YOU changed since leaving him?
Do you understand that You only control YOU?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
