Most Likely Youngster Goes His Way (& W Goes Hers)

[25yearsmlc]

RE the 10$ - yeah you lost points with that. Let's hope she doesn't notice.
Do not credit something for it or act as if it matters AT ALL...or go with the idea you were trying to help HER with the math of it and assuring her that you had not erred but the department did...blah blah blah and drop it!


RE sex with OM-

well JESUS CHRIST I cannot believe she told you all that...crap....

I've known enough men and have been m long enough AND I have 3 sisters and many gf's who share a lot of things with me about sex...here's the deal.

Size matters more in photos than anything else.

I KNOW

if a man loves a woman, he usually figures out what it takes to satisfy her sexually, unless she's too quiet to tell him or she wants a mind reader OR

if she's afraid to admit what it is that turns her on. That's pretty much it.

BTW Most women cannot climax from intercourse alone-
so technically, how much can size matter?


So the real question is, why did she tell you?


If he's into S & M, then it's just weird that she's turned on by his behavior.

Unless her "rape" secretly appealed to a part of her - for which she feels confusion or shame -

or something else- too wacky for me to figure out

AND NOT ABOUT YOU ANYHOW...

when you begin "really" dating again, and want to get intimate

just let your new woman know that your ex w told you some things that hurt your ego.

& All you ask for is that your lover communicate HER needs and preferences to you

b/c you "aim to please!"

and never ever apologize for your size. First off, You may be normal size and the OM is large. So what?

From what I hear SOME men with big ones tend to assume that their size alone is sufficient for the woman's satisfaction - and if she has not fully "enjoyed" herself with intercourse alone..well that's her problem.

look ...if you date a woman w/small breasts, will you insist she get augmentation? I thought not...

Your w's comments were so much more about HER than you, that's all I can say and reiterate.

So Carry on!