The latest from the saga from the OW made me laugh: Her comment to my H - I need a husband. H: I'm sure you'll find one in a year or two. OW: His name won't be Xyz? (My H's name). H: Uh... no. It won't. OW: I really thought we had a chance. H: Uh. I think I've told you countless times now, that's not happening. Yesterday morning, she then gets daughter to phone 2 or 3 times. When H won't engage in small talk, she gets snarky.
What is interesting: At least he's stopped telling her he loves her now since before Christmas. (If you recall this was something that was happening about 6 to 8 weeks back). My comment to him was: You telling her that you love her is going to keep giving her the idea that you are interested in her. (Like ... why should I have to tell him this?????? but I digress) ... H: oh... gives her the wrong idea eh. Hmm. Ok, then I better not say that anymore. Me: Yeah, I mean if you really feel the need to say something to her one more time: You could tell her you care about her because she's your daughters' mother, but then stress you are not interested in any relationship with her.
(He reported back to me that the OW said: Care?... what's this CARE? crap????)
His new name for her today: That lyin' B.
Round and round. Abs
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.
