The disrespect is part of what bothers me. Not just the obvious, but the seemingly oblivious-ness (is that a word??) ... in which he seems to have towards my feelings.
He gets his undies in a knot at the slightest slight by OW, and yet seems completely blind to what he's inflicting on me with the back and forth drama that he wants to engage in. Not to mention the on again, off again marriage interest. It's like, hey put your feelings on hold, would ya.
At this point, I just keep saying, when (he) no longer cares to answer her at all, and it sticks for more than simply an hour or two, or a day or two... then you'll know you're making progress. (more of his questioning how he gets sucked into her drama).
Of course the factor of his daughter puts some of the regular rules in the blender (and I expect that)... but he still expects her to abide by his telling her: I'm not interested.
He was completely blind to what was clearly obvious to the rest of us. That she was after money, ... wants a guy with money to fund her lifestyle. etc etc.
Meanwhile, of course, I'm supposed to not be hurt by this while he figures all this out, and puts me on a shelf, takes me off the shelf, etc. Shakes head. Yeah,... a pill to forget the few years might be helpful.
Abs
T:22, M:20 H:55 Me:45 H-OW PA: N/07 OW Jan08 Bomb:Feb/08 S: Apr/08 Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11 Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess. Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.
... in which he seems to have towards my feelings.
