I vote my relationship as one of the biggest runaway failures of 2003...but I vote me as one of the most self improved...still sober and still sane despite his shenanigans....db'ing has helped me to become and stay a better person, closer to God, sober, and sane through all of his mistreatments of me. Pam is doing excellent in this area, too....she is a rock these days...taking care of herself for a change! Way to go, Pam!

Congratulations to all those who made great strides in 2003...you have my utmost respect! Rock on!

To those of us who did not do so well in the relationship arena.....so what? We are stronger, better, people and we deserve better than the lousy spouses we chose....our pickers were broken...next time we'll do better!


I am responsible for my own happiness.