Rick,
If I go back over many of your past posts, I can definatley see you slowly detaching and getting a better handle on your sitch. You have come a long way, and sound like you are in a good place.

When my w and I would talk about making preparations for her leaving, she told me "forgive me but I am in business mode" which goes along with what everyone is saying here about the WAW looking at it as a business transaction. I have been told by many people who have been divorced that at some point in the future, when all the hullabaloo has died down, there is a good chance the s will look back with a sense of regret that they didnt do more to stick it out. Maybe ours will, and maybe they won't we can take some solace in the fact that we were honorable men till the end and sought to keep things on an amicable footing.

Just my two cents! Enjoy the beautiful weather buddy!


m 54
XW 48
m 12
t 14
bomb 6-11
s 10-11
wife moved to other state 10-21-11
d 9-12

O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!