Update: Had a good night out GALing with friends last night. Looked good and felt good. Had the kids to myself before leaving. Great time with them. When W came home she saw something on TV that reminded her of an issue from our past: a long distance, internet EA from two years ago. She started to bring it up and then said forget it. Before leaving the house I took her aside, looked her in the eye, and told her that regardless of the D proceedings my behavior was dead wrong no matter how disconnected we were at the time and I wanted her to know that I understood how much I hurt her. I acknowledged that our M wasn't working then and told her I knew she was trying to tell me but I wasn't listening. She thanked me and told me that although I had apologized many times in the past it was the first time she believed me. I told her I did not want to have a R talk I just wanted to address the hurt I caused and could still hear in her voice. I then left the house. Not sure if I handled this in the DB way, but it felt right to address it. As always, I welcome any input.
