Agree ANS, if we were truly detached and "over it"...we wouldn't be on this board (or, we'd only be on to try to help others)

I do think living this and feeling the pain will make us stronger and better either in our renewed relationships with our spouses or new ones.


M 44, H 46
D11, D9, D5
Married 12 years
PA confirmed 9/2011
I filed 3/2012
H moved out 7/2012