Originally Posted By: Nblost
Let's hope these cheaters eventually get a conscience!

Yeah. We can't force it, and to be honest, society is so averse to pointing fingers when it comes to marital problems ("no fault divorce"... What a crock!)

Originally Posted By: Lostforwords on Indecision and the affair continues (Part 2)
We now live in a society that doesn't reward personal responsibility....the schools are too hard, everybody is a winner, and hard work isn't rewarded but almost frowned upon. So why should it be different in a failed marriage...it is always the other spouses fault. I am not a religious man, but they had it right when they said he who hasn't sinned can throw the first stone. Hence in our world the biggest step we can make is not blaming the runaway spouse, but instead looking in the mirror and say "What could I have done differently?". Now that doesn't mean you are the cause of his actions....just taking ownership in our part of what has happened.


One just hopes that something deep down inside "tweaks" and the cheater's conscience wakes up.


Andy