You're definitely not alone when it comes to attraction - although I haven't actually SEEN my wife for a week now and even then for only a brief minute when I was half asleep. But I have an active imagination.
Also, maybe it's just a matter of personal taste but I think you're underestimating yoga pants. I think their inventor deserves the Nobel prize.
Me: 36 Her: 35 Together 7/09 Married 8/7/10 Separate rooms since at least April 11 "I've decided I want a divorce" 12/5/11 She moves out of state/files 2/7/12 Dissolution final 5/12