Quote: For instance, if you were asked to rate your relationship on a scale of 1 to 10, with 1 being the absolute pits, and 10 being absolutely wonderful, how would you have rated it before, how would you rate it now, and what "rating" would it take for you consider yourself to be a "success"? Would it take being a "10" to get you there, or would raising from a "4" to an "8", doubling your satisfaction, make yourself feel "successful"?
I, personally, see MANY success stories here on a daily basis that others tend to overlook. Especially those of us who are directly involved in the situation.
When I started Dbing in May I would say I was a big 0. Now I would say I was a 7. If H would come home I would be a 9, if he told me ILY and wants to make our M work I would be a big 10!
You're right, a success means different thing to different people. I think a success to me would mean that someone saves their M, that would be a success to me.
But there are others here that think that if they can get themselves back, that is a success.
If I could just find out who are success, I could do the research and link threads. So if you need help? I'm volunteering. I just need to know who is a success!
