Wii: You are right - they're "coffee dates" - nothing more. Not unless something sparks in BOTH people and they want to see each other more. Then you make it work. (Josh and I met then never went a week without getting together and that was with me running a business, him working fulltime, us living 90 min apart and me raising kids including Ryan - you make it work)
I think that many people like to "play" on the online sites. Ego boost for some. Many are not ready. I think it's dumb to go there and not be ready.
JMHO
My son has tried Speed Dating. He lives right down the street from the meeting place. It was where I was going to go next if things didn't work out with Lava Life.
