Maybe there isn't any point? Maybe this whole relationship is doomed and I should just find a place and move out timed for his return??? Ugg.
I just sent him this mess:
For what its worth, I am in no way wishing to talk with you in hopes you'll change your mind about us. I know once you make a decision, that's it. I just need to be able to plan and sort out my life a bit and need to clarify needs and expectations.
Thank goodness this is not a divorce, but it is still the end of a serious relationship where two people have become entwined. And therefore it needs some working out to be disolved.