Here's some more info on us. My wife and I both work in the fire service, we work opposite 24hr shifts so that 1 of us is always home with the kids, this leaves us 10 days a month to be together, so our time is precious. We have gotten in funk, with her looking to change career fields to help us out and going to school and working, plus having people work her shift so she can go to school and then having to cover for the other people has dropped our time together greatly. We have quit doing things for each other and have become more like roommates. I want to work on keeping us together and work on having better communication to keep the passion alive. I thank everyone for the help.