As busy as you are though, you'd find time for someone you were really interested in. People make time for things that are important to them. If someone wants you in their life, they'll make room for you. We shouldn't have to fight for a spot. It's pretty simple really. We do a disservice to ourselves by suggesting otherwise.
I somewhat agree but firstly, I'm not important in her life and nor should I be. I'm a coffee date. But, that said, if you are interested in someone then you respect them by following through by letting them know you can't and say "how's next weekend". In fact, even if you're not interested, you respect them lol. I think Rambo lady has just been hit by the harsh reality that when you're on a dating site people actually want to go out with you. It's easy to trade emails and chat but when it comes down to meeting someone I think that stirs up a lot of stuff in people and sometimes they aren't ready. That's my theory,for what it's worth. I'm not going to put a harsh judgment on her, I just don't know what her reality is at this point. We'll see or we won't. And G, yes you are so right. I told my girls last night that Bookkeepers email made me want to see her even more now (I won't try, of course)! My D14 says "I see a friendship coming on here" Hey, you never know lol.
