WHG I'm sure this goes without saying but I'm going to say it anyway. Everything you do after you tell your kids will determine how well they adjust to their new reality. It is critical that they feel just as loved and supported after the deed as they did before, if not more so.

Wishing you peace and strength!

Me51 W53 S17 S14
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Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11

It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.

Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife