La Bug-Clouds in my Coffee

[labug]

Thanks everyone for your well-wishes on the root canal.

Here's the email I sent to H. I appreciate everyone keeping my terse, controlling tendencies in control. I'm more and more realizing how when I arrange things for other people "I'll have your stuff on the garage apron" that I'm controlling them, or attempting to. I'm giving the message, 'I'm going to arrange and plan your life because I think you aren't able to do it.'

I become enmeshed by doing things for others that they can do for themselves. I just read this line this morning-I have no right to deprive anyone else of the challenge to meet his own responsibility.

H
About the taxes, I'm glad we agree on that. I will package the paperwork up. I appreciate you taking charge of this.

Help me understand about the house, it's not clear to me what you're saying

I am currently receiving your mail and phone calls, please think about how we should handle that. Also, how would you like to handle your personal stuff in the garage?