Trusting,

EverHopeful said it all. "Just keep moving forward, in spite of what they do."

I know it hurts, but you have no control over their relationship or what your ex's girlfriend says when your daughter is around.

I'm sorry your daughter does not want this to happen, but unfortunately, they reality is, they don't really care what she wants.

The best thing you can do is move forward and take your focus elsewhere. You need to show your daughter that despite what her dad and his girlfriend do, life still has a lot to offer and the both of you are going to be just fine.

I don't mean to sound heartless, sorry if I am coming off that way. I just sometimes feel you are still too focused on your ex.

You need to except reality. And the reality is that your ex has been gone some time now and has moved on with someone else. Is it possible your daughter doesn't want them to get married because she knows you want him back?


Me:35, ex: 36
Sons: 9 & 7
Bomb: July, 2006
Divorced 2009