I WISH I WROTE IT!!! I could help you asap but it was written by Daniel G. Amen, M.D. I'm gonna be reading it next. I'm reading about abusive man and the ruth of their problem. It is teaching me how to change my ways of reacting to XH and finding my fighting strategy to be confident and independant of his abuse. Very, very good. Title: Men who hate women and the woman who love them. by Susan Forward.
I want to break the cycle of abuse and learn to NOT fall in this trap ever again. I want my next relationship to be a good one with it's up and down but NO ABUSE! There are red flags to look for and i recognized many from the very beggining of our relationship. If i would have read that book ( before it was written:) ), i would have seen the signs before living under his controlling ways and lack of involvement in our lives. He still has a huge place in my heart but he needs to change his way of treating everybody or else, he will be very, very lonely.
