Hey Purgatory, I'll jump in on the pity party too (seems a good night for it).

On my bday, the W yelled at me and told me our move was 'all about me and how selfish I was (took a job after 15 months of unemployment - moved family. took the best of 3 job offers - best pay & offered relocation. She said she supported it).

Spent father's day and anniversary alone as she left for the summer with the kids.

Your note from Accuracy along with BlynMom are a good reminder. Stuff I know in my head and just need to work on feeling it in my heart. Can't define ourselves by their choices.

Hope you all have a good weekend.


Me:45, W:45
S:16 D:13
M:22, T:25
Bomb: July 2010
Putting finances in order for "D"
Continue to live in same home-separate rooms