That's what I plan to do. I didn't ask her to come, I told her I was going to be there and she was welcome to come. She said she would be there barring something unforeseen which is her out I guess. I hope she's there but it will still be fun if she isn't. We had a nice conversation today and I told her about some new things I'd been trying. Later on fb she posted an article about relationships which was very in line with some of the things I've been doing. I didn't talk to her at all about relationships of course. I just thought that was interesting.