What if he asks me the same? What would be the best way to answer?
That's a tough one... none of us are you so we don't know what you want. If my W actually would go to a MC and I got that question... at least at this point in my journey I think my own personal answer would be something like,
"I want a healthy, functioning relationship. A relationship where we both have needs and those are met. Where we work together to help each other reach goals that are both individual and common."
Note, I'm not saying I want it with my W... I would like it to be with her. But most of all what I want, and it may not be this minute, is a healthy relationship with someone that meets those standards and aspirations. If it can be with my W then that's great... but the reality is right now that's not going to happen, but it's still what I want.
Married 6 together 8 Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both SS12, SD10, S6 Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann) W moved out: 2/18/12 D final: 11/12/12 Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD
