Thanks again for all the great advice.

This is going to be our 2nd time going together to MC (same therapist I have been seeing individually, she has also seen same therapist by herself once).

I will prepare myself the best I can by expecting her to say she wants the D, or is better off without me. I will continue to shut up and listen as I have been doing since my last emotional breakdown on December 1st. I know I have come a long way since then, now it will be my time to shine, and show her.

I know the MC will ask her what she wants and where is this headed. What if he asks me the same? What would be the best way to answer?

Obviously I will strike: "Nothing is so different now from 7 years ago." out of the answer, but what do I say when asked?


M 33
W 29
S 4
M 5
T 7
11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents
12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over"
1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped