Well, unfortunately i am back......3 years later

[Ruikee]

Well, i thought i would drop in a say hello. It will be 15 months in a few days. Things have been up and down. We lost the house. WW still lives with parents. I have an apartment 5 minutes away, really convenient to pick up my son.

About a month ago, while her parents were out of town, she called me and got on the subject of reconciling. Saying she wanted to be obedient to God, the boys need a father, and she is tired of living with regrets. Tired of living with her mother.
We talked to SS and he said he wanted to be a family again and missed me.

She share alot of things. Then she said the problem is i dont like you right now and i dont know where to start. Do we talk to your Pastor or Mine, etc. I said we just need to keep praying about it.

Then her parents come back home and she became real distant. I asked her about the week before and if i did anything wrong. She said no you didnt, i was having a bad week, i was lonely, and said some things i shouldnt have. I said i was glad you came to me to share.

Then a week later, i found out she is sending SS to a military school. 3 hours away. He is in a private christian school with straight A's. He left on Monday.

Then i received divorce papers yesterday.

I am a little disappointed. I have done all the right things i believe. I continue to see my son alot, he will be 3 next month. I havent missed a day with him, and i get him even more when its convenient for her.

Its very sad for the children, but i have learned alot about myself and i know i can not change anyones heart or mind. We all have to live with our choices and the consequences for those choices.
My heart goes out to my SS. I know that isnt the place for him. Folks at church are in disbelief calling it insane that she chose to send him there.

I feel for every person on this site. One day, i pray that everyone will stop with the Me me me, and start thinkg about everyone else in the world. Especially the children.

Blessings to all.