You have all the rights to feel sad. You'll be starting a new chapter in your book and the uncertainty of it is painful. I know how you feel. Though my H is still in the talking stages of moving out, he is none the less thinking about it and told me that he's been looking for apartments,etc.
I hate it when people say that you need to give your H a chance to miss you, that being away from each other will be good. My fear is that what if he doesn't? At the same time, if he doesn't, then why would you want to be with that person? I struggle with these thoughts all the time.
Keep your chin up and continue DB'ing. Keep thinking about yourself and your children. Even though having kids involved makes things so much more harder, at the same time we should be grateful for the love and affection that we do receive from our kids and can give it back. Even if my H won't hug me, I love getting hugs from my S. So invest in good quality time with your kids (I'm sure you're already doing this) and do good things for yourself, because that's the most important thing you can do right now.
