not enought time and too much distance

[jbnati]

AC, I am very sorry to hear about all of this.

I think you've done a great job of taking the high road and being there for her as best as you can. You've done right things even if you're isn't.

It sounds like she is harboring some ill feelings from years ago. The depression you've spoken of is probablyh aggravating this. This harboring of ill feeling is probably going to eat her up inside until she's able to let go of this baggage.

To say I am confused is an understatement.

If you're confused, I'm sure she's REALLY confused.