Together since we were 15.

[Sad_but_happy]

Jenna... Listen.

He may be being sincere. And I'm sure he's confused.

But that does not take away from the fact that what he is doing is wrong.


Let me ask you a question.

If you were to meet a new man, would you allow him to have sex with you and than tell you he wants to see other people so he can "grow"?


Your BF is allowed to leave you. He is allowed to learn and grow without you. That is all fine. We can't control other peoples feelings.


But while he figures his s*it out, he should not be stringing you alnog and playing with your feelings. That's just being mean.


I'm not against him leaving you as hurtful as it is. We all need to make our own path in life. Make decisions and live with the decisions we make.


What I am against is him hurting you. And you should be against that too.


It's not wrong for you to say:

"I love you and want us together. But I can no longer ML or be intimate with you until you want the same thing."


That's setting boundaries. And until you do that he will treat you like a door mat...


Be strong Jenna... Because you are!!!