If you both own the house and there is no violence your L can argue against you having to move out. I know it is confusing but just focus on you and the kids. Don't worry about why she is doing what. She is hurting, scared and confused just like you. Let her do what she thinks she has to. Hang in there and work on those changes
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”