Quote:
Thoughts become words
Words become actions
Actions become behavioral patterns

Think first, instead of reacting.
Where I worked in the past (and where W and I first met actually) was an in-residence boot camp for at-risk youth. The first passage was up on almost every wall in the place. And the second piece, think don't react, was the mantra I tried to drive into my cadets constantly. They were always in react mode... I just asked them to give me that 1 second before reacting to think. Seems I have to go find my old guidance again smile

I am hopeful for Sunday... at least in regards to the blame game. We have both reviewed drafts of what we are going to say. So far, if anything, I've made suggestions that tone down the amount of blame she is heaping on herself. This isn't meant to control her... simply that the C's said don't lay this on one parent.. share it equally. Most of the answers to the kids have had her shouldering the blame pretty heavily... and that's by her own pen.

And I am grateful to the Chiefs... I really didn't want the Packers unbeaten season to be the same year as this crap. So now that won't happen.

Though I have to disagree... I wish this was happening on the day the Pack gets knocked out... because then we wouldn't have to worry about this until next January smile


Married 6 together 8
Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both
SS12, SD10, S6
Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann)
W moved out: 2/18/12
D final: 11/12/12
Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD