YOu are just killing yourself with all that suspicion. Abbey, you either just decide to ignore this thing and live with it, after all it doesn't seem like it really affects much, your H is not leaving, he takes care of you and the family, he acts like a husband, you sleep together, he hugs and kisses you and does not ignore you - or you go all out and ask him bluntly. I don't think your little questions will let him know that YOU KNOW! You know what....???? Does it mean anything? Does him working on a project with her mean they have an A?
I check your sitch every now and then and its always the same thing, over and over again.
It might be even that your H is not really having an affair. he may be hiding things for other reasons. Or you might be just imagining things.
Sorry, a little blunt here but honestly I am getting frustrated with your sitch. There's no movement at all. And if there is no movement, neither will there be a resolution.
Hope the new year will give you courage and closure.
Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18 Bomb: 6/26/10 EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ??? 11/5/11 Retrouvaille Finally piecing.... Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go
