Not put fear in her, and you're right that I don't want her to decide to stick around out of pure logistics. But, given that this isn't going to be the soft landing/easy out that she thinks it is, I figured why subject ourselves to the process?
Precisely because she (says she) wants to. I get that you don't want to (and why you don't want to), but she feels differently. Let her do as she chooses with whatever is her portion of y'all's money.
Me-53 W-49 D22,D18,D15 T-Since-12/2001 Married-9/2004 She Moved Out-5/28/2010 Piecing start-04/2011 Now-together Thread http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2079304
