Glad to know you came away with some positives from the conversation, instead of feeling like you've been thrown under a bus. We have a close friend who married us and has been a mentor to me since I was 7 and his daughter is like my little sister.... I still can't get the courage to tell him.
I need to adapt your mind-set that her moving out 'might help her heal and forgive'. My H has talked about moving out, but today he confirmed that it will happen before the end of the month... I felt like it was another bomb being dropped on me. I logically understand that he can't *miss* me if he's not *away* from me.... but it doesn't mean I can actually live through it.
I find encouragement and strength from your sitch. You may not realize it, but your problems and solutions, inspire me... and maybe some others as well. Please keep sharing!
M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12
