I agree....don't. It does you no good. It's better to keep your dignity.

If you did decide to do it against the advice here don't say "hi" say something like "I have decided to separate from H because of all his lies....I would expect you not interfere with H ability to be available for our children."

Anyway....stay strong.

Luv


M44 H41
M20 T23
3 older teens
Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy"
EA Nov 09 w/coworker
Another PA in Mar 10
I Filed Apr 10
D final Dec 10